Talk it through with the AI guide
Before you begin
A quick safety check
You are speaking with an AI guide, not James replying live. It is here for the decisions relatives actually have to make: whether to act, whether to pay, what to say, and what is not yours to carry. It is not a doctor, an addiction clinician, a counsellor, an interventionist, a placement broker, a solicitor or an emergency service. It cannot see him, cannot arrange treatment, cannot contact anybody on your behalf, and nobody is reading this.
It will not diagnose him from your description, will not predict whether he will stop, and will not tell you that you are enabling him or that you are not doing enough. It will not recommend, rank or name a clinic, a rehab or a programme, and it will not give a dose, a taper or a way to get him through withdrawal at home — that can kill, and it is a doctor today. If this has become an emergency, or somebody in that house is not safe, stop and use the safety page and your local emergency services. Do not name him, his employer, his clinic or your solicitor here: nothing written in a chat window is confidential or privileged.
This chat is currently complimentary, with up to ten turns in a rolling 24-hour period on this guide, across all your conversations here. Safety responses are never counted against that allowance and are never withheld. It will not quote you a price for anything.